Ep.069: Jessica Hurlbut on moving from self-reliance to dependence on God.
What does it mean to depend on God?
In this episode, I have the privilege of speaking with Jessica Hurlbut, a pastor, podcast host, and author of Unlimited Motherhood. Jessica's story is one of unwavering strength and resilience as she shares her journey of raising two children with severe autism. Her experience has not only challenged her Faith and perfectionism but also inspired her to trust in God and let go of her need for control. Jessica's profound insights on the value of every human being, regardless of their abilities or achievements, are a testament to her unconditional love. The conversation delves into the theology of glory and the theology of the cross, shedding light on the struggle of perfectionism and the necessity to embrace suffering. It underscores the significance of leaning on God and relying on Him in difficult times. We explore the concept of Faith, urging listeners to focus on what they can do now rather than worrying about the future. The conversation also touches on the idea that God can do infinitely more than we can ask or imagine, even amid limitations and challenging circumstances.
Highlights and takeaways from the conversation:
Facing reality and admitting our struggles to God is essential to finding freedom and healing.
Raising children with special needs can challenge our Faith and perfectionism, but it can also teach us to trust God and let go of control.
Their abilities or achievements do not determine the value of a person but by the fact that they are created in God's image.
Parenting children with special needs can help us let go of societal expectations and love unconditionally.
Trials and challenges can lead us to rely on God and move from self-reliance to God dependency. We often have an inner theology of glory that believes life will go smoothly if we do all the right things. However, the theology of the cross teaches us that growth and dependence on God come through suffering.
Suffering can unite and connect us with others and with God. It is in our weakness and dependence on Him that we can experience His power and grace.
Instead of worrying about the future, focus on what you can do today. Take small steps of Faith and trust that God will show up and work in and through you.
God can do infinitely more than we can ask or imagine, regardless of our circumstances. Trust Him and lean on Him in all situations.
Embrace limitations and challenges as opportunities for growth and transformation. God can use even the most challenging seasons of life to accomplish His purposes.
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You can get to know Jessica by starting at her website, Jessicahurlbut.com. Follow her on X, Instagram, and Facebook. Buy her new book, Unlimited Motherhood.
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